Purple Passion Flower writes, “I feel a soul connection with someone I work with but there is a vast age difference and verbally they have said they aren’t interested in me but their body language and eyes speak volumes in the opposite direction. Is this person from a past life and what was the connection then? Is there a chance that something wonderful could come of this, and if so when? If not, how do I move forward?

I also am separated from my spouse and don’t know whether I should return for their sake or my own. That was a cold and somewhat abusive and neglectful marriage but I don’t know if this person has changed though they say they have. I am getting old and fear I will never find true love. Is it possible for me or too late? If it’s not too late will it be soon because I am so weary and lonely for a solid, romantic, long-lasting relationship.”

Oh dear, so many things you ask.  Some of the questions are not ones I wish to address.  Dearest one, firstly, what is old?  It is a state of mind, not yours.  This being that you are having this amazing, wondrous, joyful flirtation with is physical. It is an awakening to tell you that you are not old. It, perhaps, is not one that you would want to last a long time anyway.  But be joyful in this. Don’t be afraid.  It does not mean it needs to go anywhere, but just be an awakening.

To return to that that was that took such difficulty for you to leave, would be going backwards. And for you that choice was not an easy one, so why would you return for a fear of being old?  So, firstly dearest one, address old.  What is it? You are asking a question of one who is many thousands of years old and yet I have no sense of this word for it is a limiting word, a judging word. It means something that has passed its newness and that cannot happen in spirit.  The reflection of your energy that flows through your physical creation, otherwise known as your body, is useful.  Will you have a love that you need? Yes, if you make a place for it in your life.  You are very busy.  You are busy in every way.  You do not like too much time alone yet you need to feel it.  Your wisdom is quite comfortable in being alone. So do not fear it is some terrible thing.  Welcome it.  All things are in place in your life.  For that that you resist, will keep coming up, you will trip over it.  It will bonk you on the head.  Your place, your path, your growth, has been magnificent.  You shall have what you desire, my dearest.