Waiting for a man to make a choice

Sandy asks about a man she has become involved with. She says, He has been in a relationship for some time that isn’t good, but he is hesitant to leave because he doesn’t want to hurt the child they have together. I don’t know why I feel such a strong connection to him when I know we cannot be together. We are both torn. Is there any hope for us, or should I just move on before things go any further?


It is true, he does love you and you him. Dearest one, do you want someone who cannot make a choice? Is it not better to be clear and healthy and happy then to have a quiet life of discord?  Dearest one, choose for yourself what you need and move forward. This state of waiting is not healthy for you. There is great hope when one makes a choice as it frees the other to do so as well. Bless you my child.

Joanna’s note:  Sandy,  sorry for the delay in responding to your question.  We had asked this question of the guides but somehow the answer got separated from the question.  This is the response from the guides in a session from late November.

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  1. Gail January 23, 2010 at 2:46 pm - Reply

    I am lost…can you help get me pointed in the right direction…No joy, no ambition….Gail

  2. Funtastic January 24, 2010 at 10:24 am - Reply

    Hi Jane and Joanna. Thank you for this blog.My question is: Is the information Hidden_Hand is providing at Above Top Secret true, in general? Is the God of the Holy Bible NOT the one prime infinite source from which all else is derived? Is what he speak of regarding ruling families not being human beings but just looking like human beings correct? To quote him/it, Your Creator, the one you have called ‘Yahweh’, is not “God” inasmuch as your bible refers to him as being “the One True God”. He is ‘a’ Creator (or Sub-Sub-Logos) rather than the One Infinite Creator. He is not even a Galactic level Logos, but rather, is the Planetary Logos for this one planet. Our Creator, is the one you refer to as ‘Lucifer’, “The Light Bearer” and “Bright and Morning Star”. Our Creator is not “The Devil” as he has been spuriously portrayed in your bible. Lucifer is what you would call a “Group Soul” or “Social Memory Complex”, which has evolved to the level of the Sixth Density, which in effect, means that he (or more accurately “‘we”) has evolved to a level sufficient that he (we) has attained a status equal or arguably ‘greater’ than that of Yahweh (we have evolved higher than him). In appearance, were you to gaze upon Lucifer’s fullest expression of our Being, the appearance would be that of a Sun or a “Bright Star”. Or, when stepping down into a 3rd Density vibration, we would appear as what you may term an ‘Angel’ or ‘Light Being’. ” Is this true what he/it says?

  3. Anonymous January 25, 2010 at 2:53 pm - Reply

    Thank you. – Sandy

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