Choosing the right path
Darcy has worries about the path she has chosen. She wants to know if she is on the correct path for her life.
This one is weary. This one feels very weary and wonders if there is some path she has been walking beside and missing something great and important. No, this dear one is not missing anything. There are certain things that have occurred in this one’s life that she now needs to take time to understand. And to understand that the choices she makes now would be different from the ones that she made before. For she has grown, grown through these elements and learned through these things that happened in the most recent past. She needs to look at them, to take time to truly see all that is, hear all that is, to be the growth that has taken place. And to understand that her truth and the choices she will make now will be different. That she is not going to repeat old patterns. That it is time, most definitely, for some new things. And there are some very new things on her path. She will not feel so weary and so tired in time. It’s appropriate now. It’s not unusual that certain things will weigh heavy on a being. But there is joy ahead when she truly sees her path and what it offers her. Every lifetime has a time when you look at your path and go, “Oh what am I doing here?” And the truth is, it is only a very small fraction of the true path that you be on.
Sometimes it feels impossible to change; we feel stuck on a path, or imprisoned on a path.
But it is never impossible to change anything. For you simply look at it a different way and you’ve changed it. You open a new understanding and you’ve changed it.
Yeah, sometimes it just takes a shift in the way you look at it.
You know many people who might view their life as nothing and yet you would see their accomplishments as huge. And others you might think “Oh that doesn’t seem to be much” and in there they are just filled with light and love and perfectly happy.
It’s not the external trappings, I know that. Any other words for Darcy?
Dear, dear Darcy. There is light, there is love, and there is wonder for you.
We’re coming into a new year and many people see every new year as a new beginning. My question is this: What does it take to live a good life?Happy Holidays!Love Kristine
I post to a foum about afterlife knowledge and do soul retrievals sometimes. I have retrieved some family members and taken them to a place called The Park to be with other family members already there. Am I imagining all this or is it real? Will I become more skilled at interaction with my family there or is this rather limited interaction all I will be able to manage in this lifetime? (If it is in fact real!)
You did a deading for me a number of years ago. During it you channeled my children’s guides. My youngets son’s gude told me ‘he will become involved with someone before he is ready’ He is now 20, has just returned home from 3 months away working in Ontario and has been told that his girlfriend there is now 9 weeks pregnant. He is devastated and feels his life is over. How do we help him through this??
Lately I once again attracted the focus of a person who I would call somewhat “psycho”…someone who likes to secretly create suffering and loss in another’s life and watch the pain they have created as it happens, while the victim does not know exactly who caused it or why it happened. This is the third time that I am aware of that I have attracted a “friend” like this into my life. I know such people are everywhere, and feel their own deprivation or loss entitles them to inflict hurt on others all their lives. I am not the only one with these intermittent experiences, but I am wondering why I have attracted this three times. And how best to deal with it when it happens? I have one sister who is deeply enmeshed in this behaviour and seems unable to change, she is not in my life any more. I had a roommate years ago who carried out amazing convolutions of cruelty on those around her secretly, and eventually she was exposed but only after years of successfully driving other people crazy. And now there is another in my life through a club I started up, and there seems no reason for her behavior, I have never been anything but kind to her as we mostly all are to each other. Is there something in my own choices and behavior I am avoiding looking at? Thank you so much. Vonna
May I ask a personal question? During a Medium reading about a year ago, my deceased mother and daughter asked me to write the story of my life. It seemed ridiculous because I am not a famous person, my life has been somewhat difficult and a little bit different, but not special enough to write a book about it, I would say. Still, I promised I would try and am about 2/3 of the way through it. Can you tell me why I would have been asked to do this odd thing? As I write it, I feel foolish that I am doing it.Vanayssa