Becky has been thinking about selling her house for a few years and she says she’s not sure where she would live if she does sell. She asks, “I am wondering if it is best to stay put, sell my house, live with my boyfriend Todd of 3 yrs, move from the city that I live in or build on my property. This also opens up the question if this is the man to share my life with.”

This being has had many existences where moving of the home was quite frequent. It is a a time when the memory, an open door of all that she has and all that she has done is very clear to her. She now understands more about having a place, a sanctuary, a temple of love and peace. It is not that she is territorial, but it is very important for her that she be in a place that is hers– whether she chooses to be with this man or not. Any home that she be in, she must feel her whole energy in it. In many ways she is very much like a turtle and can create a home wherever she needs to.

She fears being up-rooted, drifting like the sands that have moved beneath her feet in many lifetimes. She need not have this, if she chooses it not. I know in your physical world there is a feeling of instability. It need not be hers. She needs only truth for things to be, but still growing, moving and changing. The ocean represents what a great desert once was for her. Open spaces are important for this being. She needs to breathe deep, without walls. Imprisonment is something she would never be able to tolerate. For herself to seek where she has walked before is not necessary.

Tell her to trust in who she is, a radiant beautiful being that can create whatever she needs. Trust in her own being, her own choices, they be the right ones for her.