Choose what you will for your own growth; worry not of others choices

L (Tomato seed woman) writes:

Dearest ladies and guides, Is it true that testosterone that testosterone makes men aggressive and want to spread their seed everywhere? I’m not sure I buy that. And is the desire of the soul often different from the desire of the body? People (men mostly) like to make these excuses that humans aren’t meant to settle down with one person and that only the most beautiful women should be taken as wives. Furthermore, the man I want to be with seems to really only want to be with exotic women, and I am not exotic. He has been really unkind to me, totally unwilling to own up to his shallow behavior…I know he does not want a relationship, but it seems like he just doesn’t care about me at all, and that he is not attracted to me. Thanks.

The guide’s response:

Tomato Seed Woman, you want very much to live a life of wonder and perfection.  You believe in the deepest part of your being that there is one person for one being and the opportunity of a love ever after, to be. And you can have this for you if you wish this.

Do not judge those that have found themselves through choices and places where they have grown and no longer does the choice fit.  This testosterone is not a negative hormone, it dwells in all beings, some more than others.  Every hormone present in the physical world dwells in all beings–for you all are made of the same carbon and water; the same molecules create all of you.  And the breath of light that you put into your body from your spirit decides how much of the hormone you will use.

Dearest one, perhaps those in the male form seem to exude too much of this for you at times, but you truly do not want a man without it.  You must trust that you will find a being, perhaps a bit older.  There is one that is coming that you will meet soon that is going to find the light and love in your determination to do everything so right.  I would ask you my dearest to be gentle on your being.  Don’t be so restrictive that you cannot blow in the wind and feel its touch upon your skin.  Don’t be so afraid of meeting someone who may have had different experiences but now decides on a new path, a path with you.

Monogamy is a choice; it is a choice for growth.  Choose what you will for your growth. Do not worry about what others choose for their growth. Call into your path one who will hold it in the high esteem as you do.  Bless you my child and love yourself.

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  1. wondering November 28, 2011 at 7:34 pm - Reply

    Is he the one? His kindness is intoxicating and I try to relax when I am around him, but I can’t anymore. I am so concerned with not embarrassing him, and worried that he will be able to read how I feel in my energy and in my eyes. He is so different from anyone I would have been attracted to in the past. Also.Often I feel like I am watching myself react so differently to people, and situations , I feel off centre as though I have lost some essence of myself. Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
    Thank you for this wonderful service.

  2. a friend November 29, 2011 at 9:05 am - Reply

    Dear Ladies & Guides
    Please can I ask a general question re: self love, sharing of light & the teacher within? In response to many questions, you say that these are the things ‘people’ need to do & search for FIRST, but what steps can be taken to achieve this? How can ‘we’ feel and find something inside… especially if we do not feel positive or happy? Are there actions that we can take to help, when these things are lacking? It would be great to hear some further advice/pointers on this topic. Many thanks x

  3. L December 2, 2011 at 6:21 pm - Reply

    thank you so much. I have another question, if it is ok to ask…I don’t want to be a hog! lol I wanted to know…What is the origin of meat eating creatures? I realize that there are lessons to be found in the predator vs prey dynamic, but there is pain here. Pain is not always bad, but there is the ending of life. Will creatures evolve from eating meat to eating plants to maybe only living on liquid light? Because I know in my heart that if there were no food to be found that I could live on liquid light. And, guides, if it is true that creatures can evolve to not eat meat, to not need to take life, how do I speak to others of this and help them to believe it can be so? For it does not seem logical. Thank you so much…Love and light to you.

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