Starr asks, “Will I have babies anytime in the next year or two? I met a guy from another country and when we’re together, we’re like teenagers in love. Do you see this relationship working out long term?  And do you think we’ll be able to have kids together? The distance could be an issue, and I’m not sure if my life is stable enough to have a baby. The thought of having a baby with him feels like a fantasy or a dream. I want to know if it could really come true.”


These are two very different questions.  Be in the now, dearest Starr.  Yes, you will have children.  As to when–this is your choice.  If you want this being (the man you are asking about) to be a strong and steady being in your path for a long time, then make no decisions for him.  For that would be against his clear understanding of himself.