See you as the light and love that you fall in love with
Adrian writes:
In the past I tried to contact my spirit guides, but I didn’t meet them consciously yet. I tried diets, dreams and meditation. Now I eat more healthy and my vibrations are higher. The problem is that I can’t meditate properly, because my emotional state in not the right one. I’m in love with a beautiful girl, Cristina, and I can’t have peace until she will be mine. Three psychics told me that she will be my wife and I don’t have too much patience. I think that my guides can help me in all areas of my life, but I can’t contact them. I’m sure that they could give me advice with Cristina too. How long do I have to wait until the bond betwen me and Cristina will grow? I hope that I will be with Cristina very soon.
The guide’s response:
He is very frustrated and he wants it to happen quickly. But I must say my dearest one, it is not a given that this one will be your wife. There is a purpose for your attraction to this one. There is a part of you that needs to become open, loving. You are so very withdrawn, blessed one. You very seldom share that amazing light that you are with anyone and you seek the information from those that surround you that you call guides. Yes, you doubt the love that they give you. You feel you must have a debt, that you must pay back something in order to have that wonder in your life.
There is none, dearest one. Pick up the love they have. Listen to the sweet words they say and accept the love for you. And know that you are a beautiful being. All of you is magnificent, perfect. What you see as imperfections create growth–and so it is perfect. Worry not about when and how.
Be understanding of your frustrations, because you are lonely. But loneliness is not fixed or cured by having another being in your life. Loneliness is healed by you being happy with you, by loving yourself, by knowing that you have oneness and contentment in the unconditional state of love. Then you are ready to welcome into your life, for you be it.
Oh yes, extend your light and love to that one and when you think of her surround her in white light. Hold her in great esteem, but put yourself on the most important list right now. See you as the light and love that you must fall in love with and listen to these wonderful wise beings, not all about words of construction, but more about words of light and love.
My dearest guides I am beside myself and need your guidance so badly. Please help me and show me the way – I am hurting so bad!
I had an affair with someone whom I fell in love with but because of my love also for my spouse and the guilt, I left my lover and broke their heart. I returned to my spouse and came clean about the affair. I work with my ex lover who left their spouse but is now with someone else. My ex lover recently suggested that we be friends and in not wanting to have any secrets from my spouse I asked my spouse if it was okay. My spouse was extremely unhappy about this suggestion and is not okay with my ex lover and I being friends. I have told my ex lover how my spouse feels and we are not friends. Since then I have been very sad. Both these beautiful beings mean so much to me but it seems that I cannot have them both in my life. Please guides, I am at a loss and am hurting so much. I do not want to hurt my spouse again nor do I want to live a lie. What should I do? Should I ask my spouse again if I can be friends with my ex lover or would this friendship be dangerous? Is my ex-lover happy in their current relationship? Does my ex lover still love me? What is my ex lover’s intention? Can my spouse and I move past my affair, be totally fulfilled, be in love and happy again? Please guides I need you to give me some direction in what it is I should do? Even though I know how lucky we are to have this amazing gift of existence, I often wish that I cease to exist because my heart hurts so much. Life is not fulfilling anymore but painful and confusing. I feel as though I cannot be fully at peace and happy. Please guides I need some concrete guidance. What should I do?