We are very worried about Tom. Why can’t he take care of himself, and what can be done to really help him? I have been passive and pessimistic while other family members have tried to help him in the past, but maybe that has been a mistake. I feel a sense of fear for him now.
The guide’s response:
Blessed one, firstly, never fear. Trust, trust that there will be learning, growth, forward movement. When you think of this being surround them with light and love. Do not judge, but see them as exactly who they be and where they be — and love them in that. Love does not mean accepting their choices as being the choices you would make. Love means seeing them and just standing and holding the love.
This being has had difficulties. There have been times of clarity. But your just seeing and not judging, accepting and not having a process or program, it would be best for you and this being.
No, it is not about being weak or spoiled, it is about just loving them. Not all beings come with the same promises, or tasks to learn. That that irritates you the most you should look at in your own life — for it is something you need to learn. You are angry that there is no free ride. Believe me, my child, this being does not feel there is a free ride. This is not a choice he wants for his being, but he feels lost. The best way to find yourself often occurs when others see you as you are, just that. Embrace this one and do not be afraid to speak clearly but lovingly, exactly as he is. The thrashing and anger that comes forth comes from a fear. Stand your ground in light and love and do not fear.
Around the time that I had a condo in Texas some very unfortunate things happened to me one after the other within a short period of time. It was one bad thing after another. What was that about? It seemed like it started to occur after I helped that dog-labrador mix called Tuxedo (I think) or after I bought that black car. Not sure when. Will you please tell me what was going on there. I hope nothing like that happens again.
I would not usually ask about relationships but since this could involve such a huge change in my life and the lives of others i would appreciate any kind of advice helpful words at all….i was wondering about the relationship between myself and joanne….there seems to be a strong connection maybe from a previous existence and ive also had spiritual visions while in her presence….whatever the case as she lives in australia and i live in ireland the only option given is for me to leave my home and family and friends and go over there…i have worked very hard on my spiritual path and i wonder shud i be putting myself in some of the situations with other people who still enjoy drinking hard and partying and so on…thank you very much i honestly appreciate this guidance….Namaste xxx