Wondering if you’re ready for a new love

 

Cathy says she’s been without a partner for quite a long time. She wonders if she’s destined to be alone or whether she should be more active in searching out another partner, or if it will just naturally happen.

Dear one, a being to create a partnership must have an opening in one’s energy, an attraction to that being to come to be filled.  Yours is still filled with one of the loves you had on your path; one that you measure all others by.  You have some unfinished, what you might call an unhealed state of being with that being.  Take time to examine this and understand what holds you back.  There are others to be with you–but perhaps you do not feel that one is complete yet.

Beings make choices in the physical world to complete promises.  Some of these promises are to bring in children; some of these promises are to complete a balance with one another.  But usually when the promise is between two people it can hold a great effect on the whole.  This is still with you my dearest.  It does not mean you cannot love again.  It means you must open yourself to attract another into your life.

Be not afraid. Trust.  This is not going backwards.  It is understanding that which is still with you.  Be in peace my dear.  May I add to this one—my child, need to celebrate being.   You are a strong, brilliant entity.  There is much yet to do.

 

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  1. Anonymous October 15, 2009 at 11:14 pm - Reply

    I would like some help and guidance regarding my career. At the start of this year my visions of job direction all seemed so clear. Are those dreams a reality for me to bring prosperity to my life or should I follow a new path? Thank you, love Bonny S.

  2. Anonymous October 15, 2009 at 11:32 pm - Reply

    I’m feeling a big shift in 2 relationships. I feel as if I am watching them end and grieving their loss. Perhaps they aren’t ending but just changing. I understand change is important and part of life but it is bringing sadness. The first is with a man I love truly and completey. I feel we may not have completed our promise but I feel I am moving forward. Maybe there is still a chance we will complete whatever it is we need to do, I am not sure. The other is with a woman I love as well-but in a much different way. Can you please help me understand these transitions? And I’m curious what is the effect on a being when a promise is not completed? Thank you. Zarah432

  3. Anonymous October 15, 2009 at 11:34 pm - Reply

    When a woman is pregnant with a child and does not want the child does that cause any negative effects to the baby? Will the baby carry these or her emotions when it is born? Will the baby feel rejected for it’s lifetime? And what if the baby is unwanted by the father (in utero) does this affect the baby. Thank you for your wisdom.

  4. Anonymous October 22, 2009 at 6:20 pm - Reply

    Hello dear spirit guides,I’m very attached to a man (C.S.) with whom I’ve had a long-lasting friendship. We were also romantically involved for three years. Sometimes I feel like I’ve let go and then something happens and I realize I’m still attached to him. My question is: is our promise finished? Do we still have a karmic bond to work out? I feel like we knew each other in a past life. Is this so? How do I let go of my expectations of him? Thank you so much. Tia

  5. Anonymous October 24, 2009 at 9:25 am - Reply

    To my spirit guides,Thank you – you know that I am struggling with letting go of a man I have loved – he has moved on – and I am letting go as fast as I can but the pain persists daily. Please help me to feel less alone by sharing a little of who you are and what you would like me to focus on. I hear your wisdom between my dreams – thank you. What if I am not strong enough and get lost?

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