Wherever there is choice, let it be known there is growth

 

KOJ writes:

If predetermined promises with others and ourselves are made before our lives start, and if our choices determine our direction and experiences with other beings or ourselves, how do predicted experiences or projects come to be? How can it be foreseen that certain events with specific people or works of art or science can be known?

 

The guide’s response:

Before a person enters into the physical world, there is a time in which they dwell where they realize (or see, or understand) the condition of the rate of their vibrational code.  Each individual’s spirit  vibrates at a certain rate due to the learning through their actions or what you might call promises in the physical world.

Through each element of learning that you go through, your vibration increases.  So, you have to understand that before you enter in you view your path and you will see: I now need to learn this and that. And I need to have that one be with me learning this.   As to where these learnings may be on your path, know that they are tossed out as elusive bubbles, or petals, or things that will be present at any moment. You may choose to pick up on them or not– it is up to you.

You have the knowledge within you, the free will that makes you continue in the life to stay present until certain things are learned.  But as to when you will choose to take them up, this is your choice.  Let’s take addiction as an example.  Perhaps you have heard of beings that had an addictive parent in their life and they had to grow through that.  And when they became an adult they themselves became addicted to something or every partner they met was addicted.  You see, it was their choice to stop at any one of those points and to ask: What is this doing to me?  What is this choice I am making?  How can stop it from repeating?

It does not mean that at certain points you will not come to that place again, even if you have learned it, but then you will be learning it as a different being.  You might be a teacher, perhaps for a being who has this condition, or you might be the doctor that helps them with the hepatitis from that condition.  It is all present, at all times, but it is up to you at which time you will choose to learn it.

Know that such a promise is not laid on you like some debt.  It is there, moving around you, able to be seen, but you will choose.  I think at another time we will talk to you about free will.  It is such a strong force in the physical world and there is very little thought about it.  You seem to think that other things are applied to you instead of understanding that you have caused them to be.

What about when someone is told that they are going to do something with science, or art, or write a book or something?

That is because it has already been learned. But through that process they will learn what they need to do.  If we say to you that you are truly intuitive in numbers and things and you will follow a route that will help you to learn, know that the promise isn’t going to be about the numbers.  If we were to tell you all of your promises you would all just sit around and do nothing.

So when you say that these promises are floating around you, it is like you keep tripping over something and say: What, that again?  And so if you take it on…

You begin the growth.  When you dwell in a linear world you expect a perfect process– but there are no perfect processes.  Your life is a wonderful elixir of energies all moving in different ways for your soul’s purpose to grow.  From the tripping over the condition, to the being railing at you, to the being in your life causing you great difficulty–these are situations where you have a choice.  And wherever there is choice, let it be known there is growth.  And that is what it is about.

For you don’t have to know all of the details–but just know that when something keeps coming up, or if you are frustrated by something doesn’t seem to change, you should stop and say:  Oh is this one of those things?  Embrace it and don’t pile something on top of it so you don’t have to look at it.  Don’t think: Oh, I’ll shut the door and not talk to that one or just walk away and it won’t be there.

Instead, hold the space, fill it with love and say: Alright, I am here, I am willing.  This is how you tackle your problems, your promises. Be willing and be love and then the energy that moves through that promise will happen with light and perfection.

Thank you.

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  1. BJ November 8, 2011 at 1:50 pm - Reply

    I have recently retired from a job that brought much gratification into my life. I loved my work. It was through a lot of sould searching that I made the decision to retire but felt that there are other things for me to do.

    Since my retirement, I have made a trip overseas to help celebrate my sister’s birthday, which was a joyous celebration full of love and laughter. I have since my return from this trip not been able to get my life into some semblance of order. I feel that I’m not putting my time to good use but by the same token feel that there has to be a reason for this feeling of lack of motivation. I am aware that I’m spending far too much time on trying to control the things I would like in my life rather than just letting them happen. Perhaps you could give me some insight as to whether or not I am on the right path and that those things I so desire will come to me?

  2. Elizabeth November 8, 2011 at 2:29 pm - Reply

    Oh this is a goodie! I love the part about the learning “are tossed out as elusive bubbles, or petals, or things that will be present at any moment.” Some part of me would prefer a more ‘orderly way’.. like a little structure.. however the other part of me prefers the elusive bubbles and petals. Reading it makes me pay more attention to things I’ve tried to ,,, well,,, ignore I guess. However tripping over the same stone is clearly a sign to stop, stare, and find a reason. I needed this today.
    Thank you.
    Kiss kiss,
    Elizabeth

  3. Funtastic November 8, 2011 at 4:09 pm - Reply

    Dear Guides and Helpers,

    I only wanted an apology or a show of empathy from the group as a whole for the way I was treated as moderator. Hindsight is 20/20. I see many places where I could have ended my postion, but I thought doing so would make them think it was ok for me to be mistreated with no redress. It ended up with me being threatened and publicly banned. I did not see this as the end result nor was this what was desired. I do know that I did not speak my truth enough, but not sure that it would have made a difference. I would have never in a million years have seen myself having this kind of an experience especially at this time in my life. I thought I knew enough to avoid this. What do I need to do to protect/restore my reputation now? Is there anything that I can do, if I should, to reconcile with those people? Could those A…s people have done me harm? My thoughest task will be avoiding blaming, criticizing, and judging myself for this experience and avoiding going into a depression over it. This has really hurt me. It seems like my actions led me to being hurt further even though that was not the intent of my actions. It is presented as if everything was my fault. Thank you.

  4. Hélène November 8, 2011 at 4:25 pm - Reply

    Thank you for asking this question, KOJ. Really interesting.

  5. P November 8, 2011 at 7:12 pm - Reply

    I am preparing for a court case in 2weeks regarding injuries I received while in hospital. I am representing myself as I am unable to afford a lawyer and am feeling quite nervous as I am up against the hospital insurance company, lawyers and staff. The process so far has been gruelling. I am hoping the judge will be fair and that justice will prevail. How do I prepare myself mentally, emotionally and spiritually? Thank you.

  6. cheenu November 9, 2011 at 8:54 am - Reply

    I want to ask is it artifical to respond nicely to people form whom we get cold vibes? seldom i do it that way to break the ice and when it doesnt i feel bad that i shoulnt have talked nicely when they dont….
    I have a habit of thinking over and over agin about the sitauion and person as i feel they wroned me….i try to stop the thoughts in my mind as i know its becoming a habit and then my relation with other person becomes more of fault finding…
    Hw do i respond to such people..its very common..i am nice but the other is not as good..do i restrict myself, speak p or just let it go…but does just ignoring it means im toerating the cold behaviour which practicall i should not…? plz advice

  7. Funtastic November 10, 2011 at 1:48 am - Reply

    This is a part of my original comment submitted in “Responses to Wherever there is choice, let it be known there is growth”. An..us threatened to reveal my private information basically threatening my safety and perhaps my life. I feel afraid to report it since they can still act on the threat if I do. What should I do? The group publicized information to ruin my reputation. How should I best deal with that? Should I get a lawyer? What do I need to do to restore my reputation? I want to take the best course of action for myself. Thank you.

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