Where to go to find her own voice

Nancy writes, “I am thinking of moving from Victoria, I realize it is harder for me to move forward now because of too many memories and feeling stuck in my life.  I feel so lonely and lost.  I feel like a failure.  Now I am searching for a new new job and new city to move to. Do you think it is a good choice in this time in my life? I don’t want to run away, I just want to get better and staying here in Victoria makes it feel harder for me. Too many memories and regrets. I truly want to move on and be happy. I wish to be happy again and see my life with the sun again.  Thank you.”

Dearest one, when a person  grows and moves forward, often those that surround the person don’t want them to change.   It is so with you.  To make peace with them,  you often still stay in that place–for their happiness.  It is time to dance again.  You have no difficulty loving.  But you do have difficulty loving yourself and trusting in your own choices.  So, you often seek to find answers from others.  But often these beings do not want you to grow, to move forward, to move, to be who you are now.  You may say you have fewer friends as they do not know who you are and when you are with them you are more depressed than ever.

It doesn’t mean you have to be alone.  But it does mean you have to be true to who you are now, a strong, radiant being that knows what she wants and isn’t getting it at this time.  You have always been in an element of helping others, helping them heal, helping them grow, putting your own needs aside for the needs of others.   But you know yourself that didn’t work and it doesn’t work.  Your own happiness and your own healing must be what you choose.  Do you return home to family where they are all there and supportive?  But they are supporting who you used to be and so you fear that as well.   There is a concern too that your parents have mixed minds and different concerns about you, so that you never really had a voice there.

So you are asking, “Where do I go to find my voice?”  This is what you are asking…but truly you’re asking yourself, not me.  I will tell you something.  You have a beautiful voice.  Listen to it.  You don’t need to change places.  You need to change the façade.  The outer being no longer fits with what others expect.   So, expect them to be somewhat limiting for you.

Seek new friends.  Seek new places to dance.  You love to dance and laugh.  You sometimes seek a religion or a group to be present and part of, yet that is an old way too.  Seek joyful places to be, to go.  You will do fine making your own choices, my dear.  I know.  I can hear you say, “Do I move?” If it brings you joy, move.  But remember, you will still be with you.   Be who you really are and the love will come.

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  1. Patricia Oliver June 15, 2010 at 5:26 pm - Reply

    Question posed at Belfry Theatre June 11th. What are the steps that I need to take to use my gifts in this lifetime to move forward? Spirit guides responded that I am a healer. Thank you.

    Could you clarify what the healing modality will look like? Would it be like the master healer Denis Chagnon? Can you send healing
    guides and people to assist on this journey. I have already checked out many different methods of healing and think I could
    certainly use further spiritual guidance.

  2. Sherron June 15, 2010 at 7:00 pm - Reply

    i am recovering slowly,slowly from yet another “medical event” and feeling very very emotionally/spiritually fragile. Healthwise, according to conventional medicine, the future looks bleak – more broken bones, limited mobility, severe digestive troubles, etc. etc. i would like to shake this dark feeling of dread that oppresses me, or at least, diffuse the power of the fear that i carry. It seems so hard to do – am i asking for too much?

  3. Grieving Mother June 18, 2010 at 6:57 pm - Reply

    Could my spirit guides give me information that may be provided to the police in order that charges can be laid against the perpetrator responsible for my daughter’s murder?

  4. Nancy D'anjou June 23, 2010 at 11:36 am - Reply

    Dear guides, I want to thank you for your support and helping me to find peace and comfort when I needed it. I am still confused of what to do next and I try to ask my inner voice when I have questions and I am not to sure of myself, when it is time to make decision. I have met someone, nothing serious, but of course I am afraid to get hurt again so I am pretty careful and protect my heart. I am not to sure why I met this man. I do have concern because he is a bit younger then me and I wonder why he is in my life right now. I think the Universe is trying to challenge me and see what I am going to do. I try to listen my inner voice. One part of me says just go with the flow and you will see and the other part of me is saying just stop this now, it is safer? I guess it has been a while since I have listened to my inner voice and I am not too sure whitch one is right and whitch one is wrong? Why is this younger man his in my life right now?
    Thank you my dear guides.
    love,
    N

  5. Sarah June 24, 2010 at 9:14 pm - Reply

    I have a few questions for the guides. Some concerning my current health problems and the future of such things. The other questions are to do with my relationship with my girlfriend. I had a CT scan in canada approx 18 months ago because of major abdominal pain. The scan showed inflamation of the liver and cyst of right ovary, and also thought to be a possible growth on left ovary. Nothing more could be done until i returned home to New Zealand. I had a MRI scan in Nov 2009 (for my back) and a grey mass is present where my left ovary should be. No one has looked at the scan and im on the waiting list to see my gynocologist, to discuss the increasingly worsening abdominal pain. I have also lost 28kg (57 pounds) in under 8 months. I am not trying to lose weight, but it keeps falling off me, my doctor hasnt even noticed my weight lose!I have talked to me doctor about the pain and my concerns in regards to my scan. My doctor said my abdominal pain is from chronic pain syndrome. Is this correct?. I have suvere Endometriosis and have had multiple operations to remove the disease, including a hysterectomy when i was 23 yrs old. My last operation in 2007 showed that my right ovary was clear and healthy. However my left ovary was covered in scar tissue and stuck to left wall of abdomin. The surgen did not want to disturb the ovary, so i never found out if it was healthy tissue or not. I also had two lumps removed from lower abdomin. They were tested and were benign. I think my doctor is looking for a quick or easy diagnosis. What is causing the intense pain in my abdomen? Is this pain a sign of something very wrong physically within my body? Cancer? What can i do about this? Is there another medical person that can help me?
    I need some guidence as i am not feeling well at all…i can feel my health both physcially and mentally are going down hill fast. At times i just want to give up.

    My other questions are to do with the relationship i am currently in. I have been seeing a woman for the past 6 months. I love her dearly. I have connections with her that i have never felt before with anyone. We are having some problems and im starting to doubt that she is being faithful to me and she doesnt want to be with me anymore. When she is drinking she becomes difficult to be around (becomes verbally agressive towards me) and i dont know why. Its also when she has been drinking that she flirts intensely with other people. She kissed a guy in front of me and a few weeks later she was just as inapropriate with another male in front of me. When she sobers up the next day she says sorry and promises me it wont happen again. Things are then great for a couple weeks and then that conflict towards me from her returns. It seems to be a cycle repeating. Is this relationship going to end up long term and we sort things out soon??? Does she love me as much as she says she does? Is how she is when drinking my fault? What can i do to break this negative cycle in this relationship?

    Thankyou my dear guides
    I love you,
    Sarah

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