It is true, he does love you and you him. Dearest one, do you want someone who cannot make a choice? Is it not better to be clear and healthy and happy then to have a quiet life of discord? Dearest one, choose for yourself what you need and move forward. This state of waiting is not healthy for you. There is great hope when one makes a choice as it frees the other to do so as well. Bless you my child.
Joanna’s note: Sandy, sorry for the delay in responding to your question. We had asked this question of the guides but somehow the answer got separated from the question. This is the response from the guides in a session from late November.