Unfinished business in an ended relationship

Hannah asks about her relationship with her ex-boyfriend Adam. She says they had a very painful breakup last year, and she finds herself myself dreaming of him constantly. She is worried about him and wonders if she is meant to move on or if she has unfinished business with him.

Her promise is complete; his is not so. This is why she she felt such frustration when she chose to move forward without him. It is because of her great capacity to love that she still thinks of him. And remember to tell her that all parts of her being feel love for him still, but that does not mean she needs to complete anything with him. He is not having the difficulties she fears. Much of it is a dramatic carry-on. It does not mean he’s negative, just very youthful.

By | 2008-07-23T15:08:00+00:00 July 23rd, 2008|Categories: Growth and choices, Love relationships|0 Comments

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