To seek love, first begin within your own being

IMG_0707Starlight writes:

The last few years have been a big struggle for me in terms of career, relationships and mental health. I have chosen a new career path, which is scary, but I am trying to embrace it. I hope I made the right choice in moving on from my previous career. What’s missing from my life is a partner to share it with and possibly children. Will this happen for me? Also, lately I have been having a lot of vivid dreams about the house I grew up in. From what I remember of my childhood, it was great. But the dreams are often terrifying and I wake up screaming. Does this have anything to do with the nightmares from my childhood and possibly what happened to me in a past life? If so, could you please explain? Thank you so much and God bless you all.

The guide’s response:

Very often, dearest one, dreams are the creation of the need of the conscious mind to understand something.  Your conscious mind tells you many things in this dream, that you are not happy, that you are lonely and that you want the warmth and protection of a love.  The feeling that is dominant when you arrive from a dream like this is what you need to address. So, don’t be afraid to ask yourself about it.  Understand that you are a jack of all trades, that there are many things you could do for career, but there is an emotional depth within you that must be attended to.

To seek a love, you first must begin within your own being.  The love of one’s self is not about addressing the room or the furnishings,  but the need to hear your own voice, the need to feel your own tears and to find the love that you have for yourself.  For that will empower you to be who you are and draw the love to you. I know you want to be very matter of fact and technical.  But some things about your life have been magical– and do not question that.  Allow that amazing energy to flow around you and trust that you are in the right place and the right time and all will be if you learn to love yourself.

It often is a difficult task to love one’s self as one loves others, to see one’s own creation, your body, in all of its wonderment, to have humour and acceptance in all of the actions and choices that you have made. To know that there are times in which you made choices that you would never make now (for you have grown), but to have love for the you that made them then.   This is called growth and it is a continuum that you do continue on. Bless you my child.

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  1. Stellapup June 4, 2012 at 7:55 am - Reply

    Dearest Spirit Guide,
    I would like to know more about my connection to Chris. I have not contacted him so that he can move on, as I have found someone whom I love very much and wish to spend my life with. However, I think of him often and cannot deny that we have a connection unlike anything I have ever experienced. I believe that we have a promise together – has it been fulfilled, or will he continue to be a part of my life in the future?

    Many Thanks –
    Stella

  2. BJ June 5, 2012 at 12:27 pm - Reply

    I come to you once again for your support on a question that I have asked before. I have come to know a lovely man over the course of two years. We have exchanged emails, phone calls and we have met on two occasions all of which went well and left both of us with a feeling of ‘can’t wait to do it again’. Although we have not been together since then, there is a promise that we will see each other again. I feel that he is being very sincere with me when he tells me that he would like to see me again. I should point out that there is distance between us which makes it difficult to be spontaneous and may be seen as problematic. However I am of the belief that where there is a will there are no challenges.

    I feel a huge connection with this man and he holds all the ingredients that makes the chemistry between us so very beautiful. I know that it is there for him as well. I sense that he fears commitment and involves himself in a myriad of responsibilites to other people so that he does not have the time for a serious relationship. I also feel that he would like to have a meaningful and loving relationship but has not let go of past hurts.

    What we have at the moment is a friendship. Can this be more than a friendship, is there survival in this relationship? My intuitive side tells me that there is, to be patient that this will evolve if I don’t control it. Do you see this evolving? I very much would like to extend my love to this man and share with him what he has not had much of in his life.

    • Faith June 7, 2012 at 5:09 am - Reply

      Hello Guides,
      I am hoping to understand my relationship with anger- where does it come from? What to do with this difficult energy? Any insight and advice would be most appreciated.
      Thank you

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