Matthew is a gift of God. You help a grandson by doing your grand work. You are in a blessed position—in jobs that is. Grandparents are like overseers; they see all things at once. They are not so taken up with the everyday care and nourishment so they see the whole. And they see sometimes when a little one might need a bit more help in some ways. Your grandson is an amazing being who came to teach, to learn, to grow. So let it unfold. Judge not, label not. Your Matthew has come to teach many. So simply be the guardian of great love for this one.