Loving yourself and opening to love from others

H asks if her weight and issues around it are blocking love from entering her life.  She says, “How can I learn to ‘feel’ again and find a genuine companion, or is my growth path to remain on my own?”

You speak dearest one that you are on your own, yet I see many that love to be with you.  They love your companionship, your joyfulness.  It is because you do not feel yourself with them that you feel so alone.   You hide all of your wonder, your magic.  You are quite the answer person for all of these beings, yet you do not see that.  Love.  Love of self, and love of another, a partner for life.  If you want these things, dearest, you will have them.  You are so disappointed with yourself.  You feel like you let yourself down so why would anyone want to love you?  Well, dearest, I am the first one stepping up to say you are very lovable.

So where do you begin? By starting that it is only one step at a time, this moment now. If you can enjoy yourself in each moment, you will see it is not about weight, it is about love.  It is not about the acceptance of someone else in your life, it is about rejoicing in the wonder of having another being in your life.  You are looking at if it is a list of have to do’s instead of joyous time ahead, the wonderment unfolding.  It is not some issue that you must tackle, dearest one.  It is about the blessing that lies before you.  Love your being, your body, your opportunity to grow, for your chance at this amazing life of growth.  Be full of wonderment at who should come around the corner and you be that amazing being to share with you such joy.  Instead of thinking there won’t be love, dearest blessed one, start opening that blessed heart.  Let the sunshine out and it will all be.

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  1. H October 5, 2010 at 8:57 am - Reply

    Thank U and bless U all…Always such kind, positive and touching advice. Your gift is truly great X

  2. Joanna October 5, 2010 at 10:36 am - Reply

    H, thank you for your kind words and your donation to support our work. We so appreciate this assistance.
    Joanna and Jane and Donna

  3. NG October 5, 2010 at 2:23 pm - Reply

    Dear Spirit Guides,
    I have recently separated from my long time girlfriend and it was her who initiated the separation. Our relationship needed work but there was still so much love between us and I truly feel we have so much potential together as a loving and happy couple. We had recently moved into a new apartment, which we both loved and felt home in, and had only been there a few weeks when it ended. I have had so many realizations of myself and have been committed to making myself the person I can love and be loved. Do you see any potential for my ex-girlfriend to come together again in a loving relationship as we both have time apart to work on ourselves?
    Thank you for guiding me and thank you for your blessings!
    NG

  4. Son October 5, 2010 at 9:00 pm - Reply

    Dear Spirit Guides,

    I recently had a powerful meeting with someone that I cannot understand. I called him over (which is very “unlike myself”), we looked into each others’ eyes, shook hands, and were speechless. Everything just disappeared into white. I have not been able to stop thinking about this. It has been a source of happiness but I also feel sad about it. What does this all mean? Does he feel the same way too or am I just crazy?

  5. J_Reid October 6, 2010 at 10:10 pm - Reply

    I have been separated from my husband for over a year now, the divorce should be final any day now. I have healed and moved forward in my life and I feel content and happy. (we were together for 2 years and it was a very tumultuous relationship).

    I guess my question is am I ready to start dating or should I continue healing and being on my own? My life feels so great right now as a single person that I am scared to jeopardize this feeling of balance.

    Or am I just using that as an excuse because I am scared of getting hurt again. I don’t want my fears to hold me back. I do feel in my heart that my soul mate is out there somewhere. Maybe I will meet them when I least expect it? I feel I am at a crossroad almost…not sure why though.

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