Please talk to me about my sister. How can I really help her?
The guide’s response:
Well, dearest one, firstly I will tell you that in a previous existence you were a mother to that one. That is why you have always felt a need to guide and love. But know that you can only be truly responsible for your own path. So, in order to help your sister, listen, see, do not judge. If your sister speaks of needs, speak a need back. Not of yours but of hers, as if to be the mirror you hold up as you see her, with no judgement, no expectations. Just be present.
Always keep all forms of communication open. It doesn’t mean that you must accept that behaviour that you find so frightening. It means you love and are willing to stand with her in pure love. This is the greatest gift you can give your sister. Let her be. Let her spin far and wide but if you hold the space of love she will always return.