Hold dear the role of mother and be strong, supportive and loving with your children

P1020613Lorraine writes:   

Hi Guides, thank you so much . My oldest son has moved out perfectly happy and ready, this leaves me and my youngest son who has just been working on graduating grade 12. We were going to move and our rent was lowered a bit so we might stay. My youngest son now needs a job to pay rent and is having a hard time with anxiety.  

I have also decided to open up a small business in the room where my oldest son moved out of to work on earning extra . I am asking for advice in this financial squeeze …. or blossoming …. any advice? Thank you.  

The guide’s response:

Dearest one, there are many changes going to happen. Be flexible. Listen. Do not make choices or statements that cover all the beings in your life, for there are three entities here that all have different needs.

You are the mother. It is important for that role, which you chose and have done very well at…. It is important that you hold it dear and that you continue to be strong, supportive and loving with these children. The youngest one has some secret pain. Hopefully he will speak to you about it, but if not, try to speak to him about it. His fears are very exaggerated but they are real to him. And your oldest one is having difficulty too.

Your life’s path has been very complicated; it has not been easy. And I speak this not to make things more complicated, but do not rush forward for the sake of money. Though I know money is an important element in the physical world, but truly I think you would say that your children are more important. There are many ways that you can create money, but there are only a very few ways that you can create the strength and the deep love to heal your children.

Do not pass by quickly on these steps. Do not assume that because the older one has left that it is complete. Take your time my dear. Take your time. See them; hear them. Do not make choices for them so quickly. Be patient.

And if your rent has been reduced I would say that it is probably wise to stay where you are for the moment. Bless you, my child.

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  1. moon July 23, 2013 at 5:02 pm - Reply

    Jane thank-you bless all of you
    I realized that every moment in all our lives- past, present, future, known, and unknown – exists simultaneously, as though outside of what we know as time. I have become aware that I am already everything I was trying to attain, and believe this true for everyone….. When I go into prayere my connection with source is profound. Is there anything you would like to tell me about this point on my journey? Love and Blessing to all of you

  2. awake July 26, 2013 at 11:11 am - Reply

    Dear Guides, I write this tentatively. Do so appreciate your input. You once told me I would be partnered with someone whose arms I could fall into. My current partner I see as a gift. I am grateful. My partner has expressed on many occasions that my current circumstances are less than favourable but tolerable as the good weighs out the bad. I believe no one is perfect. No situation perfect. My partner is an amazing combination of all experiences so far. I used to shrug this off but it is beginning to weigh on me. Although continuously pushing me away I do not believe this person would be happy for me to go. I am very unsettled about all of this. Would you please give me some insight in any way you can about any of us involved to make this situation better for everyone. Could he be that that you spoke of before. Many thanks and love.

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