Guides and harsh voices

This question is from Pam.  She had a disagreement with her partner and she said something hurtful. Then two days later Pam heard a voice screaming in her head admonishing her never to use her words to hurt.  She says she wonders if it could have been the voice of a spirit guide even though she believes they are  benign and caring. She says, “Perhaps the bad parts of me have guides that punish to help me grow.” Can you comment?

It always has been something I’ve never understood, how in the physical world they seem to think that punishment creates growth.  It is always the opposite—it creates a state of no growth.  Violence, punishment—it stops everything.

No my dearest one you did not hear a guide; you heard your own self—talking to yourself.  You have an inner voice that is so harsh and angry with yourself.  Your guides love your dearly and they are speaking to you that you are totally frustrated and feel absolutely helpless.  And always when your words are so angry it is because you are feeling unloved.  You need to turn it around inside out and practice loving yourself.  It is almost like needing to erase those old words that you heard when you were growing up.  Know that they are not part of you now but that they do come back whenever you are unsure.  It’s like thinking, “ Well that’s the old and familiar; I must fall to that. That will make me feel secure and strong.”

But it doesn’t anymore.  You are a new being—a brand new, more evolved being.  Now it is needed for you to stand in the light of love and to not fill it with anger, but with love.

You do love your partner.  You love many people.  But you do not love yourself.  Oh, I know the word love is bandied about every which way in your world.  But in truth love is a vibration, a wonderful vibration, of God, of mother, of life, of giving, of growth, of forward movement.  And it feels good in the body, because it can only feel good in the body.  And when you saturate your body  with love it feels very joyful, but when you’ve left spaces open and filled with a negative thought, it can create a bigger and bigger sore until it must be dealt with.

And so my dear, I know you don’t want to look backwards, but sometimes you need to just look at who you are and where that voice would come from.  You don’t have to go back and do that or be that again.  But understand that it’s a part of you, a part that needs healed.

Healing isn’t erasing; it’s embracing.  It’s surrendering and saying, “I am ok even though I have that part of me.  I am love even though I had hate in me.”  Bless you my child. You are doing very well.  You see how much better you feel already.

Thank you. Those are wonderful words.

By | 2009-10-28T09:10:00+00:00 October 28th, 2009|Categories: Emotional issues, Love relationships, Self love and manifestation|0 Comments

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  1. AJ Adams October 29, 2009 at 10:15 am - Reply

    Hello, I have posted a question in the past and I have been curious lately how my evolution (for lack of a better term) may have changed your thoughts on the present situation. I am graduation college in May- finally. I am looking for direction beyond my education. Before I didn’t know what direction to take because of fear. I feel I’m past that now. I have been looking at starting an online business. To me that would be fun. However I think my husband would prefer me too go into a “normal” 8-5 job working for someone else because this seems to be his idea of “security.” The thought of providing our sole support makes him very anxious, and getting a business off the ground can take time. We would initially have lean on his income and have little left for extras. I love this man immensely, he is so kind. Are there words I can give him to ease his concerns? Is this online business a realistic option for me?Thank you for your insight,AJ Adams

  2. AJ Adams October 29, 2009 at 10:28 am - Reply

    Also a second thought about my original comment… I have struggled my whole life with my attitude about money. I was raised with a very negative view of money, and have been trying to befriend it ever since. I am in a much more comfortable place now, and that is helpful. However, I will need a large, lump sum of cash to start this business, and I am concerned about manifesting it. Any thoughts on channeling the money to make it happen?

  3. Mary October 30, 2009 at 8:32 pm - Reply

    Dear Jane and Joanna, thank you for a wonderful evening, Oct. 23 we were surrounded by love, and I believe we all felt it. Mary

  4. Joanna October 31, 2009 at 7:46 am - Reply

    Thank you Mary. We’re glad to have confirmation that the guides’ love was communicated to all in the room last Friday.

  5. Kristine November 5, 2009 at 6:43 pm - Reply

    This is a beautiful response. The part where he/she could not understand that we think punishment creates growth. I got to thinking about parenting. Could you speak of disciplining children? May I please have some parenting advice?Many thanks and love to you all!Kristine

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