Anni has a few questions. She writes, “I know that each relationship I am attracting is a opportunity for growth. I am in the midst of letting go of a man that has issues with being with one person at the time. He is adopted and I don’t think he has been dealing with all of that. I am not able to carry him anymore since he has been hurting me on an emotional level. I want to know why I attracted this person in to my life. I also would love to know if I should do the application for my Master’s in Counselling/Psychology this year so I can start next September at the university or should I concentrate getting back on my feet financially? Thank you for your help.
All those things are true, my dearest. You should most definitely seek what you feel will give you a good status and learning in your life and also freedom from all burdens. This is not one or the other. I know you see this as taking on more debt. But you are a wide and wonderful being and you just can’t narrow down your field to one thing.
As to this being, yes, he has attachment difficulties and is very afraid to just be with one being. And it is true he feels there was so much that was hidden from him and there are things yet to be known about as there were lies told to him early in life–and he’s never gotten past it. You say you let this one go, but in your heart you are still very attached. You ask why have drawn this one? It is because you are a healer and you are a romantic. You love to help people and love people. Will you attract another being? Yes, my dear, but a much stronger one is coming to be with you. You are doing very well and do not be sad. You have done exactly what you needed to do for this one and you have spoken such words of kindness and he has grown in leaps and bounds, but not enough yet for you my darling. You do well.